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SEX IS NOT WHAT YOU THINK – HERE’S WHY”

S*x isn’t what you think it is.

It’s not performance.

It’s not dominance.

It’s not submission.

It’s not release.

It’s not validation.

It’s a mirror.

It shows you exactly who you are when the masks are off.

It shows your shame.

Your craving for control.

Your hunger to be wanted.

Your inability to be seen.

Your disconnection from your own damn body.

For men, sx is often hunted as proof of worth.

For women, sx is often given in exchange for closeness or power.

Both are starving in the dark.

Trading fragments instead of fire.

We’ve been sold a version of s*x that is loud but hollow.

We’ve been told to “get better at it.”

More positions.

More orgasms.

More confidence.

More edge.

More games.

But what if the s*x you’re chasing is just a performance to hide your fear of real intimacy?

Because real sx—raw, conscious, soul-ripping sx—

…is terrifying.

It requires you to stop performing and start feeling.

It asks you to slow down.

To breathe.

To drop the armor.

To speak when you’re scared.

To touch with truth.

To see the person in front of you—not the body, not the fantasy—the human.

That’s where real power lives.

Men: Stop trying to prove yourself through s*x. That’s boy energy. Start showing up with presence. Let your desire be clean. Let your touch say something real.

Women: Stop trading your body to be chosen. You were never meant to be the prize. You are the fire itself. Speak your boundaries like they’re sacred. Stop shrinking.

And both of you—

Stop using s*x to escape yourselves.

Start using it to return to yourselves.

The deepest s*x you’ll ever have is not when you “do it right.”

It’s when you show up fully.

Naked in every sense of the word.

Not just body-to-body.

But soul-to-soul.

That’s where the edge lives.

Right where it burns.

Right where it heals.